In this episode, Alana and Dr. Liz chat about codependency recovery and how early child dynamics impact our adult relationships.

In this solo episode, Alana speaks to how improper mirroring in childhood can impact our identity formation in our adulthood.

Dr. Liz hangs out with Alana Carvalho, therapist and author, to chat all things codependency. Dr. Liz and Alana discuss some of the experiences in one’s upbringing that might lead to developing codependent tendencies, as well as how these tendencies show up in our adult relationships. They get personal and explore their own codependent behaviors and the areas of their lives that are impacted by these behaviors. Dr. Liz and Alana discuss ways to recover from codependency, including the importance of increasing self-awareness. You won’t want to miss this very relatable episode all about addressing codependency.

In this episode we’ll define what codependency is, the emotional burden it can place on our children, and practical steps we can take to break free of this pattern and foster healthier relationships. Whether you are in a fully codependent relationship or not, there can be subtle things people do in romantic relationships, with friends, and within a parent-child relationship that can heighten aspects of codependency. Here to help parents spot the signs of codependency (whether in yourself or in your partner in parenting) and teach you strategies and behaviors to help you create a more healthy and secure relationship with your child is self-proclaimed “Codependent Perfectionist” and LMHC Alana Carvalho.

In today’s episode, we’re talking all about doing “the work” with Jacqueline Hurst and the willingness needed to go through the ups and downs of the therapeutic process. We chat about the difficulty of taking risks, putting up boundaries, and the benefits of getting to a place of peace.

Guest appearance on Adult Child, which is a deep dive into the impact of growing up in an dysfunctional family and how to heal the unresolved pain of the past. I speak on Codependency & Perfectionism in this area

Listen as I discuss Codependency & Perfectionism on The Lilli Bewley Podcast | Self love, Self-Compassion, Trauma, Abuse, Codependency, Relationships

In this episode, we’re chatting with Candy Washington on all things codependency recovery. Candy shares how she moved from a place of codependency to self love, presence and peace.

In today’s episode we’re talking about mental health issues with young adults & teens. Megan shares her journey from discovering her own mental health issues to working on her recovery.

I speak with Nick Thompson (of Netflix’s Love is Blind) as we unpack the terminology and symptoms surrounding codependency and get to the bottom of what it means, what signs and habits to look for, and how to identify a codependent relationship and learn how to set up proper boundaries.

In this episode, we’re talking with Heidi Rogers about parenting “spicy” children and how this differs from parenting neurotypical kids. We talk about what it’s like to be a codependent perfectionist parents of these kids and offer parenting strategies to help you navigate it more effectively.

In today’s discussion, we are talking all about inner voices. Specifically, we’re explaining the difference between negative self talk and the inner self, how we distinguish between the 2 and how to show love to ourselves in recovery. *Please excuse the technical issues*

In today’s episode, I chat with a listener named Susan all about parenting. We discuss topics including making space for ourselves as mothers, how to navigate issues around codependency and perfectionism and much more!

In today’s episode, we’re talking all about love addiction and codependency with Sherry Gaba, author of Love Smashed! We explore what love addiction looks like, trauma bonding, boundaries and more. You can find out more about Sherry and her online e-book & quiz here: https://sherrygaba.com/npquiz.

Ever wondered if you’re a codependent perfectionist? Listen in because it’s quite common (we both are!) and today’s conversation felt like a great big hug!

Today we’re talking about some common questions people have when they’re working on recovering from codependency. We’ll clear up what codependency is not and consider where the line is between caring and codependency.

In this episode, we explore the use or Oracle Cards and how to use them in the healing process. We also discuss the concept of Truth and the different ways this relates to the recovery process.

In this episode, we explore how the mindset of victim can impact our recovery and ability to heal. We discuss what victim mindset means and how to go from disempowered to empowered!

In today’s episode, we discuss trauma bonding and why it’s important for us to recreate relationship patterns in order to heal.

Today’s episode is with Alana Carvalho – licensed mental health counsellor who focuses on helping parents, couples and individuals build balanced relationships by releasing old patterns, setting boundaries and finding our voice.  She is especially passionate about helping individuals see how healing codependency and perfectionism can lead to a more joy filled life. As a recovering perfectionist and high functioning co-dependent, let’s bring on the joy!

“Avoiding Codependency with Alana Carvalho” Takeaways from the show: Alana’s story Codependency in the context of parenting Developing community outside of family members Being supportive vs controlling Creating a safe space for your kids Validation and support coming into play Empowering your children by asking if they want your help Being in relationship with kids who are in resistance Example moving through hard things for your child How you respond is where your influence lies Building resilience

In today’s episode, we chat with Heather Chauvin, author of Dying to Be A Good Mother. We discuss issues around balance as a parent, codependency, perfectionism and Heather’s journey through cancer recovery that helped her learn to take care of herself.

In this episode we’ll explore how language is an essential piece to improving relationships in the recovery process.

In this episode we discuss how spirituality can play an important role in recovery from codependency and perfectionism.

In this episode we explore what the concept of gaslighting looks like in our interactions with children. We’ll identify terminology that could lead children to feel less trust in themselves and how to change it.

In this episode, we’re talking depersonalizing and learning how to separate out what’s about us vs. what’s about someone else.

In this episode, I explain what oracle cards are, how they came about and how they can be used to strengthen one’s healing journey and relationship to Spirit!

In this episode, Dani Bryant and I take a look at the connection between food as a coping mechanism and codependency. We tackle the Karpman’s drama triangle, what it really means to binge eat, and having compassion for ourselves in how we deal with our emotional struggles.

In today’s episode, Polina Shkadron and I explore the importance of prevention with children and what it looks like. Polina gives some practical tools that parents can implement to help their children learn coping skills.

In this episode, I explore how the daughter can go about healing a codependent relationship with their parent. We’re talking taking risks and learning to stand in our power!

In today’s episode I explore the mother-daughter dynamic. Specifically, I tackle how codependency and perfectionism can easily creep into the relationship and what we can do to begin to move out of the dysfunction.

In this episode, we’re chatting with Christie Kim, LMHC on how healing can happen in a codependent relationship especially through the lens of Emotionally Focused Therapy.

A live chat with Tuff City Radio on Raising Empowered Children and where our codependency & perfectionism comes into play

Today we’re talking about how changing how we think can influence our ability to experience empathy rather than enmeshment.

“Our episodes are usually a little bit outrageous, but after interviewing Alana Carvalho in our exclusive 6-to-Teen Parenting Community, we knew we had to get her on our podcast to discuss the topic of codependency in parenting. So here we are with a more serious – and super informative – episode that we know is going to help so many people. Listen in and get ready for your mind to be blown.”

In this episode of Women In-Depth,  Alana Carvalho, LMHC, shares her insights on helping parents recover from patterns of codependency and perfectionism so they can raise empowered children.

In this episode, we explore the cultural context of codependency and perfectionism in the Black community with mental health therapists Ariel Emmanuel & Camille Lester.

A great discussion about my book with Psychotherapist, Life Coach, and Host Anna Marcolin

Today we’re talking codependency and perfectionism in women, especially people pleasing with Johannah Bogart! We also dive into the holidays and gives some thoughts on how we can work on people pleasing over the holiday time.

Today Robert and I are discussing relationships based on codependency, how we can make changes to support ourselves and our sense of self-worth.

Today we’re talking all about body image with Dani Bryant! Especially it’s connection with perfectionism, where this comes from and how we can work on healing it.

In this episode, Alana chats with Lindsey Pratt, the Discerning Drinker, discussing out of balance alcohol usage and it’s connection with codependency.

Today we’re talking about spirituality and it’s connection to codependency & perfectionism. Codependency can be thought of as a lack of faith and perfectionism as a lack of trust. Listen to find out more about how to work through these spiritual issues!

In this episode, Dr. Sarah Bren and I discuss attachment, the good enough parent, attending to your child’s emotions, postpartum anxiety and more!

In this episode, we’re discussing the issues with your codependent parent. What it looks like, emotions that are often present, and why it’s often dysfunctional.

In this episode we have 2 special guests: Alana Barlia and Lindsey Pratt! Together we talk about narcissism, personality disorders and codependency, especially common narcissistic traits, relationship patterns, and what to do if you’re in one!

Today I interview 2 wonderful parents who have done some great work on their own codependency issues! Listen to them share their story of why they came into the support group and how they worked towards a new relationship with their children.

It’s all about Karpman’s drama triangle today! We’re discussing and identifying the different roles codependents take on in relationships.

Today we’re discussing codependency with siblings, adult and child! If you have this dynamic with any siblings or are concerned you’re doing this as a parent, this episode is for you!

  Today we’re talking friendship & codependency! In this episode, you will hear some of the ways codependency can show up in a friendship. From putting in more than the other person to not saying no, we cover some big relational issues.  

  We’re talking stages of change in the recovery process today! Learn how it looks and where you may be at. As well as common issues that come up when we’re working on our codependency and perfectionism!  

Today we’re talking about parenting! Especially parenting “sensitive,” “hyperactive” or children with mental health issues. We speak about how not to bring too much fear into your parenting as well as how to separate from codependency in your child’s recovery process. Click here to listen

In this episode, I tackle 2 audience questions on whether we can work through our codependency issues when we’re in a relationship and if so, how!? Click here to listen!

Today is examples day! As requested, we go through 4 different examples of codependency in action at different ages. As always, feel free to e-mail your questions and comments to ala[email protected]. Thanks! Click here to hear more!

It’s time for Q&A! In this episode, we take some time to answer listeners’ questions regarding codependency in relationships. Please keep the questions coming! You can email them to [email protected]. Click here to listen. Hope you enjoy!

In Episode 3, I tackle communication!! As codependents, we tend to be poor communicators. We may be busy worrying how people will feel about what we say or how they may judge us for what we say (mix of codependency and perfectionism). We may even spend inordinate amount of time thinking about how to say something instead of just being honest. This episode talks about 4 big communication issues with codependency and how we can talk them!

Episode 2 of The Codependent Perfectionist is here! Today, Lauren and I explore codependency and perfectionism in relation to both where it comes from and how it can play out in our romantic relationships. We also share some stories and tips on how to identify codependency in a relationship! We have so much more to discuss on these topics too!!

I’m very excited to announce the launch of my new podcast The Codependent Perfectionist!! Along with my good friend, Lauren Talcott, this podcast is meant to provide insight into the dynamics of codependency and perfectionism. Lauren and I use a mix of personal anecdotes, psychoeducation, and therapeutic exploration. This first podcast is an introduction to give you a sense of what we will be discussing. Lauren and I had a great time doing it. Hope you enjoy it!