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You learned a long time ago in your relationship with your emotionally immature parent (EIP) that there was no space for your emotions or needs.⁠
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Even when you share, they attempt to correct you, fix you, or tell you how you're wrong in some way.⁠
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You might just be seeking comfort and connection from them, but they interpret your words as opportunities to point out errors, criticize, or change your opinion.⁠
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As a result, you leave dinners or family trips wondering why you even bother... It's not like they see you as a complete person or are genuinely interested in getting to know you.⁠
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This dynamic is one of the many origins of what I call the ""never good enough"" wound. Your existence barely registers to them, teaching you that who you are is unimportant or incorrect.⁠
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There are many reasons EIPs behave this way, namely that they project their insecurities on to you, and can’t see you without seeing their own self hatred.⁠
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But remember, it's not about you or anything you did. This is about THEIR internal battles.⁠
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Words & image by @morganpommells⁠
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#thecodependentperfectionist #hsp #highlysensitiveperson #highlysensitivepeople #highlysensitive #sensitiveperson#sensitivity #sensitive #sensitivityisastrength #sensitivesuperpower #empath #empaths #empathstruggles #empathsbelike #empathsofinstagram #empathlife #empathic #empathsunite #secondguessing #selftrust #selfconfidence #boundaries #settingboundaries⁠
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Spotting a narcissist isn't always easy – their charm and charisma can mask deeper patterns. 🕵️‍♂️ ⁠
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Narcissists often excel at concealing their true intentions, making it crucial to trust your instincts and observe consistent behaviors. ⁠
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Learn the subtle signs, because understanding the red flags empowers you to build healthier connections. 💙 ⁠
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#codependencyrecovery #codependent #codependencynomore #codependentsanonymous #codependentnomore #codependency #selfesteemtips #selflovejourney #selfloveadvocate #selflovedeficitdisorder #selfloveisthebestlove #selfloveisthebestlove #stopcodependency #stoppeoplepleasing #stopeoplepleaser #stopperfectionism #peoplepleasernomore #peoplepleasing #peoplepleasers #peoplepleaser #peoplepleaserproblems #peoplepleasingnomore #perfectionisme #perfectionist #perfectionism #personalgrowthanddevelopment #perfectionismrecovery #personalgrowth #personalgrowthtips #personaldevelopmentillustration

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This does not discredit anyone from doing the best they knew, it's simply facing a reality that it could also have been harmful and affected us.⁠
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Does this resonate with you?⁠
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#selfsoothing #selfimprovement #resilient #consciousrelationship #positiverelationships #consciousrelationships #healthyboundaries #mentalhealthjourney #consciousawareness #recoveringpeoplepleaser #emotionalregulation #dailypractice #reparenting #innerchild #innerchildhealing #healingmyinnerchild #reparentingmyself

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